Enabling

I want to be happy. 

 

I have a physical issue with enabling others. 

I have a mental issue with enabling others. 

I have an emotional issue with enabling others. 

I have a spiritual issue with enabling others. 

I am addicted to enabling others. 

I am addicted to helping others cover their issues. 

I am addicted to making excuses for others. 

I am addicted to fixing others problems. 

 

Take a deep breath and a drink. 

 

I lie for others. 

I make excuses for others. 

I over-help others. 

I cover for others. 

I bail others out. 

I justify for others actions. 

I take the blame for others. 

I make things easy for others. 

 

Take a deep breath and a drink. 

 

I permit others negative behavior. 

I permit others bullying. 

I fix others problems so they don't have to suffer the consequences. 

I'm responsible for others. 

I enable others behavior. 

I enable others words. 

I enable others to depend on me. 

I save others from themselves. 

I save others from their addictions. 

I over help so that they don't have boundaries. 

I enable others so they won't fail. 

I enable instead of supporting. 

I enable others indecisiveness so I look good. 

 

Take a deep breath and a drink. 

 

I enable others so I can feel important. 

I enable others so I can control them. 

I enable others so I get their approval. 

I enable others so I will be needed. 

I enable others so I can save them. 

I enable others so they will be in my debt. 

I enable others so I will look good. 

I enable others so I will get things done my way. 

I enable others so I will be liked. 

I enable others so I'm better than they are. 

I enable others so that I can take credit. 

 

Take a deep breath and a drink. 

 

 

I be physically complete and done with enabling others. 

I be mentally complete and done with enabling others. 

I be emotionally complete and done with enabling others. 

I be spiritually complete and done with enabling others. 

I be complete and done with my addiction to enabling others. 

I be complete and done with my addiction to helping others cover their issues. 

I be complete and done with my addiction to making excuses for others. 

I be complete and done with my addiction to fixing others problems. 

 

Take a deep breath and a drink. 

 

I be complete and done lying for others. 

I be complete and done making excuses for others. 

I be complete and done covering for others. 

I be complete and done bailing others out. 

I be complete and done paying for others. 

I be complete and done justifying others actions. 

I be complete and done taking the blame for others. 

I be complete and done permitting others negative behavior. 

 

Take a deep breath and a drink. 

 

I be complete and done enabling others words. 

I be complete and done saving others. 

I be complete and done saving others from their addictions. 

I be complete and done enabling others so they won't fail. 

I be complete and done enabling so that I feel important. 

I be complete and done enabling others to get their approval. 

I be complete and done enabling others so I will be needed. 

I be complete and done enabling others so they will be in my debt. 

I be complete and done enabling others so I will look good. 

I be complete and done enabling others so I'm better than they are. 

I be complete and done enabling others so I can take the credit. 

 

Take a deep breath and a drink. 

 

I let others learn their own lessons. 

I let others be accountable for themselves. 

I let others be accountable for their stuff. 

I let others control their own actions. 

I let others control their own words. 

I let others face their own consequences. 

I let others fix their own issues. 

I let others set their own boundaries. 

I let others learn to be dependent on themselves. 

 

Take a deep breath and a drink. 

 

I be accountable for me and only me. 

I invest in me. 

I be good at what I do for me. 

I be committed to me and only me. 

I be empowered. 

I lead by example. 

I be important. 

I be good at what I do. 

I like me. 

I be proud of me. 

 

Take a deep breath and a drink. 

 

Homework statements: 

I want to be happy. 

I be complete and done with my addiction to enabling others. 

I let others learn their own lessons. 

I let others be accountable for themselves. 

I be accountable for me and only me. 

I be committed to me and only me. 

I lead by example. 

 

Homework action: Focus on yourself this week and do not become involved in others situations.